Not a reflection on you as a person, or your situation. [Though it is technically true that other angels would likely deem him unfit.

But as is established, they're gaslighty jerks at best.]

I wouldn't recommend anyone with access to this network visit me at the moment. There's nothing to do, and it would be extraordinarily difficult to explain the presence of outsiders. If anyone else acknowledged your presence at all, it would likely only be long enough to show you to the door, so to speak.